When you’re in a relationship, don’t bring up the past. Don’t bring up the tears and the memories of pain and struggle. Don’t bring up her flaws and mistakes. Don’t remind her of how bad she’s messed up just to prove a point. That’s not how a relationship works. You forgive and forget. You forget the past, and you live in the present, maybe even think about the future. You live in the now, without regrets. Realize that she’s human too. We all make our mistakes every once in a while. She’s not as perfect as you imagine her to be. She’s trying, bro. She’s trying hard to be that girl, but hey, who can live up to your standards? Don’t bring up her past, because well, that’s exactly what it is: passed. It’s behind her; it’s behind both of you. Instead of wondering how she can improve, think about how you can improve. How can you be as perfect as possible for her?